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Takeaways From Our Conversation:
What is the difference between temperament and personality? Personality is what we show to the world. Its like what grows above the ground and how they express their design in the world. Temperament is like how the root system nourishes what grows above the ground. Its your God given soul DNA. It doesn’t change. Its a clue to where that path is leading.
Tall Tree Profile Types:
Boxwood tree - introvert, you can prune them into any shape you like, boundaries, rules, want to know what’s expected, what’s right and wrong
Pine Tree - introvert, takes stress away, bring peace, stubborn in a quiet way, thinkers more than doers or talkers, like being spectators rather than participants, they don’t want to be alone, but don’t want to be on center stage
Palm Tree - extroverts, people, fun to be had, living life full, bright side, resilient, optimism, also in discipline too, not easy to bend and shape
Rose Bush - extroverts, don’t want to be cuddled, grown up before one, tantrums first, strong willed, don’t need a mom, thorns, pride, competitive, achieve
I asked if there were certain types there were more difficult to work together. She said, “That depends—do you want to grow or have it easy. When temperaments clash there are opportunities to grow.” Mic Drop. That has been shifting the way I see conflict in our house.
Discussion Questions
- Do you ever feel like motherhood is not in your strengths?
- Hettie talked about how having no control in parenting was the most difficult thing. What has been the hardest thing about motherhood for you?
- Knowing what causes burnout, what is one thing you could do this week to help with that?
- What is one area of emotional intelligence that you could flex in your own life?
- If you have taken a personality or temperament profile, what were your results? How have you seen these take shape in how you parent?
- What does burn out look like for you in motherhood?
- How can you give your child what they perceive as love?
- How do you handle conflict?
- What is something that really stood out to you about this episode?
- If you have taken the tall trees profile, what were the results? What surprised you?
- What is one thing you can do to help love your child based on their profile?
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